A household of Christian men
Summary: I would like to live in a house with a group of men of
different ages and social situations who share a common life of
prayer and devotion that is compatible with the demands of our
vocations.
Ideas for what a men's household of prayer could be.
+ the people: a group of men who share a common life of prayer
- a passion to know and love God
- seeking a vision of what God is doing
and what role He would have us play.
+ the place:
- a house of prayer and work
- a house of learning and study
- a house of hospitality
- a house of service
+ the environment:
- time and space structured with care and deliberation to foster:
- edifying community life
- good habits
- focused and strategic application of time and energy
- productive work
- simplicity
- reflection
+ shared activities:
- enough common activity to have a common life,
but not so much that the time consumed interferes
with the demands of our work or service in the world.
In particular, I am a graduate student studying math.
- specific common activities:
- daily morning prayer and devotion (maybe 25 minutes)
- meals together (maybe a couple times per week)
- common fasting and prayer (maybe once/month or once/week)
- shared conversation
- could have a common notebook, a forum for conversation
and visions.
+ possible physical arrangements:
- rooms/cells for sleeping and private prayer and study
- study areas
- common bookshelves/library
- desks and tables
- shared computer resources
- common area: room for reading, meditation, prayer, and
conversations with guests.
- model: fireside apartment building
+ behavior patterns
+ desired atmosphere:
- love for one another and care for the world around us
- respect
- thoughtfulness
+ desired behaviors and conditions:
- to be a passionate community of learners
- to have profitable conversation
- to have profitable silence
+ feared behaviors:
- behaviors that kill passion
- complacency
- frivolity
- silliness
- cynicism
- behaviors that kill unity
- conflict
- striving
- willfulness
- resentment
- avoidance
- disengagement
- confusion about spheres of responsibility
+ authority organization
- need to think about this.
- for a house to take on responsibilities,
it needs to have some kind of organization to
ensure that others are there to step in if one person
falters under his burden.
- simple organization is more effective for smaller groups.
- need to define spheres of responsibility.
- should recognize the value of age and experience.